Born with a sweet tongue
gifted with sagacity;
pretending to be forthright
and sinewy
Man of eminence yet full
of lunacy.
Born full of wits
expert to defraud
have one’s name be mud;
man of distinction yet
full of furtive lies.
Born with everything…
…nothing but.
..a deceiver…
P.S.
As my eldest daughter went to college, people began noticing her beauty (by this I mean physical appearance)..it is beginning to scare me that one day soon she will have suitors around…she will have men trying to win her heart over..men who whether I like it or not may only fool her…as I was processing my own fear, I realized that every mom should talk to their daughters, who, in return should open their hearts and trust their moms and talk about anything that might be of great concern in the future. Because as we all know (men may react)…. there are really mean men around…
so I listed down some possible hints that may be of help in identifying a potential abuser:
1. he isolates you from your friends or even family
2. he monopolizes your time, activities, and behavior
3. he is extremely jealous or possessive
4. he has an explosive temper (take note: BOYS WHO VENT THEIR ANGER BY PUNCHING ARE DANGEROUS; OR IF A BOY FEELS A SENSE OF RELIEF AFTER EXPLODING, better be careful)
5. he doesn’t take responsibility for his own actions (always blames others)
6. he is a control freak (need to explain more? I don’t think so)
7. he takes drugs and uses alcohols
8. he has a history of abuse in his family (well… with all due respect..this is true…a battered son may end up battering his own partner someday..)
the best possible way to stay away from this kind of situation is for girls to CONDUCT THEMSELVES IN A DIGNIFIED MANNER ….after all… you get what you deserve…
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