What Makes a Woman Strong?

What Makes a Woman Strong?

is it her courage and conviction to brave even the darkest nights and the vicious storms?

is it her ability to face all the trials
and tribulations with grace and gratefulness
knowing that it will soon just pass?

is it her determination to rise above all the failures and misfortunes with a smile and with a hope of a better tomorrow?

is it her bravery and willingness to go after what she wants even in the presence of fear?

is it her optimism and positivity even when it may not always be feasible to display positivity and optimism at all times?

is it her class and elegance even when at times she is mistaken to be so full of pride?

now, tell me would it make me less of a strong woman if i say “i gave up because i’m tired?”

would it make me less of an empowered woman if i say ” i quit i just can’t go on anymore?”

would it make me less of a woman that i am now if i say “f- – – the world for making it so hard for me?”

or worst, would it make me less of a woman if i wallow at my own pain and wail over a broken heart?

tell me what really makes a woman strong? 

For Reena’s Exploration Challenge:

“ravaged inner space
unable to account for
entries and exits
who came, who destroyed, who left?
a soul transformed forever”

26 Comments

  1. Oh wow… A beautiful muse on our feminine powers and our emotional struggles.. Wonderfully written Mich.. ❤
    And you are one strong Lady.. ❤

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    1. michnavs says:

      Thank you so so much Sue…it means a lot to me..❤💕🙏

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  2. Reena Saxena says:

    Do women ever give up because they are tired? They just change the battleground.

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    1. michnavs says:

      Oh, i so agree…change the battleground that’s what we do..💛

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  3. murisopsis says:

    The eternal question of what makes a woman transposed over the perceived weakness when the soul is weary. Even a machine must refuel, a beast of burden must rest, and so too a woman. No one says an ox is weak when it stops to eat or sleep, no one thinks a machine is broken when it needs more gas. Why then is a woman branded inferior when she must pause to weep or refresh??

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    1. michnavs says:

      I am so grateful for your insights Val..you are so true..our society has been like this for a long time..when women take a break or literally breaks down, they are perceived as weak..its time.we change this…

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  4. Sadje says:

    Such a thought provoking poem Mich. Excellent take

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    1. michnavs says:

      Thank you so much Sadje..💛

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      1. Sadje says:

        You’re most welcome

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  5. Simone E says:

    In my humble opinion a strong woman is one who can cry, can fall, can give up and despite that all- stand up yet again.. to battle life’s challenges, to be weak sometimes and admit that it’s all too much. To be your best self! (Even if that means staying in bed all day if that’s the best you can do 😉)

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    1. michnavs says:

      O am with you….so true..we can’t be brave all the tieme..and let’s not take it against them…thank younso much..💛

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  6. Wow, what a great piece, Mich! I love the fierceness…

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    1. michnavs says:

      Thank you so so much Kim.

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      1. My pleasure! Take good care, Mich…

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  7. Jeff Flesch says:

    A wonderful contemplation, Mich.

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    1. michnavs says:

      Thank you so much Jeff..❤🙏

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  8. Important ponderful questions, SweetMich!
    I think a woman is really strong when she can just be 100% herself, authentic…and still be loved, respected, and appreciated by someone or someones. 🙂 Whether being herself means taking charge in or crying (which at times is a strong thing to do). Too many people through the ages have tried to get women to change, or squelch who they are at heart to be accepted, etc., and all of that has been so wrong.
    (((HUGS))) ❤️

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    1. michnavs says:

      Thank you so much Carolyn.i always look forward to your comments as i know i will learn more from you. Thank you your visits are always appreciated.💕🙏

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      1. Aw, thank you! 🙂 ❤️ I learn a lot from you, too! 🙂

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  9. Excellent take on the women gender, Mich.

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    1. michnavs says:

      thank you Kamal..

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      1. Welcome dear Mich 💓

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  10. powerful and heartfelt .. of course it wouldn’t Mich . We do our best .. that’s the best we can do! 💖💖💖

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    1. michnavs says:

      I so agree Cindy..we always do our best..❤

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      1. We sure do and this was one of yours-:)💕

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