The best things in life happen unexpectedly, and come from where and when you least expect it. The storm that’s raging now could clear at any minute and reveal a million-star sky.
if crossing the longest bridge
is what it takes to get me
to where you are
then let me begin
my journey now
with the hope
meet me halfway.
Written for kate’s Friday fun- bridges https://aroused.blog/2019/09/07/friday-fun-bridges/
Stars (A teaser)
Things that break on earth don’t reach the clouds above us. Burning villages don’t change the schedule of sunsets. And stars remain stars, no matter how much land we destroy.
But when the sky loses all of its lights and unleashes a thunderstorm, everything drowns.
A special project is coming out soon in support of PERAK WOMEN FOR WOMEN SOCIETY. And before it would even come out allow me to thank my very special WordPress Family, who helped me share this advocacy through reblogs and by sharing their creative brilliance.
May your stars shine upon endlessly ….forever….
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Lorraine of https://blindwilderness.wordpress.com/
Nanette of https://puzzlesofthesoul.com/
Kate of https://aroused.blog/
Ivor of https://ivors20.wordpress.com/
Nikki of https://under1000skies.org/
Andrew of https://thelonelyauthorblog.com/
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“You can only see clearly through your heart”
– Fox, The Little Prince-
My third daughter, Allana gave me an illustrated version, hard bound copy of the book ” THE LITTLE PRINCE”.
It was so sweet of her to do that.
The Little Prince taught us that life is only worth living when it is lived for others, not for oneself, and that it is important to look beneath the surface to find the real truth and meaning of a thing. It is the fox who teaches the Prince to see with one’s heart instead of just with one’s eyes.
Apart from that, “The Little Prince” taught me three valuable lessons in life.
1. SELF – DISCIPLINE
‘“It’s a just a question of self-discipline,” the little prince explained later. “First thing in the morning you look after yourself, you brush your teeth and wash your face, don’t you? Well, the second thing you must do is to look after the planet.”’
The Little Prince lives on his asteroid in peace, taking care of his volcanoes and watching his sunsets.
Do we get annoyed over the little and repetetive things that we are bound to do regularly?
How do we take care of the things that we have and the people around us?
Reading and writing require a lot of self discipline. Over the years i learned that in reading you appreciate the value of “waiting” that eventually taught me to be more disciplined. When reading, i do not open the last page and sneak on the ending unless i read through all the pages. I wait patiently until the last page. I also learned that reading will help us practice daily habits of discipline. Like for example, i do not jump on the next book unless i am done with the current book i read. Eventhough, i must admit that there are certain books that may not really be interesting at first, and you just want to simply drop it. But, No, don’t – everybook no matter what it is, is bound to teach us a lesson or two.
Writing on th other hand taught me to value, appreciate, and take care of the things and the people around me. As i write carefully, i am as well very careful about how i treat people around especially my love ones. I do not speak ill easily of them. My father used to tell me “if you have nothing good to say, just keep quite”.
My children and i share the same passion and love for reading and writing. That maybe the reason they have stayed grounded and disciplined despite of all the challenges every single youth faces.
It would be really wise to teach our kids to love reading and be passionate about it.
We discovered an amazing bookstore last Sunday as we took another round of stroll in Old Town Ipoh.
Its “heaven on earth” for book lovers like us. It used to be a bank back in the 80’s, and the shop has retained its original structure and even utilized the vaults as book shelves.
And to my surprise, they are cheaper than most bookstores around, (mostly by 50%, i wonder why). I can stay there all day long and i wouldn’t mind.
They also houses an amazing collection of specialized art works, which is very interesting and pleasing to all lovers of art.
2. DON’T BE QUICK TO JUDGE OTHERS
‘“[My rose] filled me with her fragrance, she had brought joy to my life. I should never leave her. I should have recognised what a sensitive sweet soul there was under all her rather silly games.’”
Do we judge others on the basis of what they say rather than of what they do?
We are quick to judge people on the basis of their appearance. But as i fell in love with Old Town Ipoh on my second visit, i realized that the popular saying “first impression is lasting” may not always be true. It is therefore imperative that we take a second look at people before we create an impression about them on our minds. The Little Prince, was very quick to judge the Rose, but it was only when he left his planet that he realized how precious the Rose is for him; and that no matter how many roses there would be in other planets, his Rose would only be the one made for him.
Do we need to wait until we lost the ones we love before we realize how much they mean to us annd how much we need them in our lives?
Or are we so quick in judging others that we lose the chance of meeting and being with wonderful people who may help us get through life?
I had the chance to finally meet one of the founders of PERAK WOMEN FOR WOMEN SOCIETY over the weekend.
We discussed my upcoming project ( which i will announce here very soon) with them and in support of the foundation.
She is a very nice and amiable woman who’s heart is in for helping victims of violence and somehow ending it.
We live in a fast paced world that helping others may be the least of our concern now, but Ms. Yip, is probably an exception, as she devotes most of her time running the foundation. This warms my heart. We still have people around who genuinely believe in giving and sharing, and that there is hope for humanity.
Living in a foreign country maybe seemed to be very difficult at first. We have to adjust to the culture and its people. And i just thought, if i judge people so quickly here i would have probably missed one of the best opportunities i would have in my life : share my gift of words to those who truly need it.
The PWWS shop has been transformed into an amazing and colorful shop as they are soon to touch down on the ONE MILLION STAR.
It feels so good knowing in my heart that i am part of a greater advocacy and endeavour.
A Sunday walk in Old Town Ipoh for the second time around has made me appreciate the place even more and witness its hidden beauty and treasure.
My meeting (details of the meeting will be posted soon) with Ms. Yip ended on a very beautiful note as i took another stroll along Old Town Ipoh.
I discovered special gems like this local artist who creates beautiful tiny miniature houses.
There is also an “MINIATURE WONDERS ART GALLERY” which houses a handmade three – dimensional miniature art works depecting the OLD CHINA. It has “Terracota Warriors and Horses”, “Tang Dynasty Royal Banquet”, “Along the River During the Qingming Festival”, and a lot more.
“Terracota Warriors and Horses”
“Tang Dynasty Royal Banquet”
There is also a fancy tattoo shop in the corner.
3. RELATIONSHIPS MATTER (In fact it makes life worth living)
‘“What exactly does ‘tamed’ mean?”
“Well, it’s something too often forgotten,” said the fox. “I suppose it means: to make some kind of relationship.”
“Yes,” said the fox. “I’ll explain. To me, you are just a just a little boy like any other, like a hundred thousand other little boys. I have no need of you and you have no need of me. To you I am a fox like any other, like a hundred thousand other foxes. But if you tame me, you and I, we will have created a relationship, and so we will need one another. You will be unique in the world for me… If you were to tame me, my whole life would be so much more fun. I would come to know the sound of your footstep, and it would be different from all the others. At the sound of any other footstep I would be down in my hole in the earth as quick as you like. But your footstep would be like music to my ears, and I would come running up out of my hole, quick as you like.”
What kind of relationships do we have? How are we as partner? Wife? Husband? Son? Daughter? (etc)
Relatioships really do matters. Its vital and important as we live our lives. And it is with this thought that i continue to suport PWWS’s project “ONE MILLION STARS TO END VIOLENCE”. Deadline for the stars would be on October 31, 2019.
“When you wish upon a Star,
Makes no difference who you are…”
-Jiminy Cricket, Walt Disney’s “Pinocchio”
Stars Fled From Your Eyes
stars fled from your eyes
and the shadow of death
cast upon your face
on this dark gloomy night
filled with goodbyes
and unending sighs
of a once promising life
stars fled from your eyes
and you stop dreaming
of what could have been’s
and what if’s
a future you may never see
for it has become so bleak
stars fled from your eyes
and it may never come back
unless you take the courage
to speak up
seek for help
and maybe, just maybe
stars fled from your eyes, no, not yet
We have been fascinated by the stars- those shiny bright, little five-pointed dots in the sky that has been illuminating, even before humans exist. It presents us with beautiful symbolism over the years even when there was not enough scientific studies made to prove its origin. The Star is said to be one of the most beautiful and enchanting of all Symbols. For many it symbolizes aspiration, inspiration,
imagination, wonder, dreams, pursuits,
creative brilliance, divine intervention and even magic.
Imagine, what happens if one loses all of these?
Violence of any form massacres these little red dots illuminating the very core of every human being reflected upon in their eyes. And that is why they say, the eyes are the windows to our soul.
Look around you, see if the star is still shining brightly in the eyes of your beloved daughter, sister, friend, neighbor or even the one who sits across your table in a cafeteria.
Let’s take a moment in our day to observe whose star is slowly dying, you might save a life, save a dream, save a hope, or even save magic.
Written for “One Million Stars to End Violence” project of PERAK WOMEN FOR WOMEN SOCIETY
Dedicated to all women and children who are victims of Violence.
Perak Women for Women Society (PWW) is a registered, apolitical, non profitable and non-governmental organisation (NGO) founded in 2003 to enhance the status and lives of women in Perak irrespective of their race, religion and social background.
They recently launched its “One Million Stars to End Violence” project. It is a global weaving that has inspired individuals, groups and communities to weave stars to inspire light, hope and peace in the world. Ms Maryann Talia Pau, the founder of One Million Stars to End Violence Project has urged the global community to continue her good work in encouraging everyone to end violence.
Let us help PWWS bring back the star in the eyes of every women and every children whose lives have been destroyed and altered by violence.
Please send your stars to them at PWW:
The PWW Centre
15 Market Street
Tel : 05-2469715
Below is the link to learn how to make the stars :
For more information, email at firstname.lastname@example.org
I am also calling out to all WP bloggers around Malaysia to help me share this cause to your followers and encourage them to participate.
Help save a life; weave a star!!!
Splendid, beautiful and warm
That’s what you are, full of charm
But history was unkind
To the truth, some were blind
Your story was interestingly told
By many as they stroll, young and old
Tell tales has it, you were gifted
By a wealthy man indeed
Some whispered you were the haven
Of love untold and forbidden
You’re a silent witness
Of the truth there is that says
“I am but a memory
Of glorious past of history”.
Inspired by my recent visit to The Concubine Lane, in Old Town Ipoh, Perak.
The Concubine Lane has history that goes all the way back to 1892 when parts of Old Town Ipoh were rebuilt after a fire. The Concubine Lanes were part of the rebuilt which was owned by a mining tycoon who have said to give these lanes to his three wives. Thus the locals call it, the wife’s lane, concubine lane and the second concubine lane. Another version of the story is said to be that these are the lanes to which the rich men hid their second wives.
Regardless of the validity of the story, the Concubine Lane is a beautiful reminder that no matter what happens, we continue to persevere and live the life we love. We will be UPROOTED sometimes, we will be CHALLENGED, and we will be BROKEN; know that these are nothing but part of a greater plan, for us to become the better if not the best version of ourselves.
After the fire that hit the Old Town Ipoh in 1892, its people have been resilient and dedicated in their pursuit of bringing back the glory that the the place used to have.
Today, Old Town Ipoh, stands majestically as one of the places to visit in Ipoh. The crumbled walls and broken architecture are reminders of its past: the once broken, the once burned down, the once forgotten has risen again.
The Concubine Lane is one of the distinct and remarkable areas in Old Town Ipoh, which at the same has a story many wil not be happy about. Having said that, Concubine Lane has inspired people to learn to understand the diverse culture of Malaysia through its vibrant colors, its cafes, its novelty shops and its walls. Most importantly it teaches us a very important lesson in life; a lesson that says, no matter what people think or say about you, you stand by your beliefs, your values and your idealism. You rise up above criticisms and continue to inspire others to be good. Every wall and every corner of Concubine Lane is a manefistation that one can learn to better themselves amidst all the crisis and tribulations.
The Concubine Lane is a testament of love. And as we walk along its corners, know that it will be a silent witness to a love’s sweet whispers, a child’s biggest dream, a mother’s plea, a husband’s triumph and of dreams do come true.
Posted for calmkate’s Friday-fun- Uprooted https://aroused.blog/2019/07/06/friday-fun-uprooted/
When all else fail
and respect is gone
listen to your own heartbeat
and you will hear
the sound of your own voice
screaming silently with courtesy
Respect comes in different forms and appears in various LAYERS it could be a show of esteem or honor for someone or something. An example of respect is being quiet in a church or truly listening to someone speak. Walking around, rather than through, in a protected wilderness is also an example of respect.
The children’s book I read from the National Library of Singapore which has inspired me to write is poem
This part really touches my heart.
Written for calmkate’s yFriday fun challenge – layers https://aroused.blog/2019/06/29/friday-fun-layers/